Friday, June 16, 2017

Amritsar - Places to eat at

The Golden Temple Langar
Amritsari Fish Fry @ Lohgarh
Sharma Sweets - Gulabjamun
Blue's Bakery @ Circular Road - Cakes, Pastries, Cookies
Kulche @ Harbans Chhole Kulcha on Lawrence Road, @ Majithia Road and @ Ashok Kulchewala on Ranjit Avenue
Fruit Cream, Aam Papad @ Billa Chicken House in Hakima Gate

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

अर्ज किया है.....

हर नजरमें मुमकिन नही है बेगुनाह रहना

कोशिश करता हू कि खुदकी नजरमें बेदाग रहू

(Forwarded)
When Things Fall Apart - Pema Chodron
A Pah With Heart -Jack Kornfield
The Enlightened Heart - by Stephen Mitchell
Spiritual Literacy - by Frederick and Mary Ann Brussat
The Way Of A Pilgrim - by Olga Savin
The Tibetan Book Of Living And Dying - by Sogyal Rinpoche
Peace Is Every Step - by Thich Nhat Hanh
Full Catastrophe Living - by Jon Kabat-Zinn
Staying Well With Guided Imagery - by Belleruth Naparstek
Awakening Healing Energy Through The Tao - by Mantak Chia
Golf My Way - Jack Nicklaus
Healing into Life and Death, by Stephen Levine
Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness, by Sharon Salzberg
A Path with Heart: A Guide through the Perils and Promises of Spiritual Life, by
Jack Kornfield
The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, by Eckhart Tolle
Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life, by
Jon Kabat-Zinn
Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind, by Shunryu Suzuki.

Tuesday, June 13, 2017

Peopleware: Productive Projects And Teams - by Tom DeMarco and Timothy Lister

I don't remember exactly where I found reference to this book but I was intrigued enough to search for it on the net. It's an old book - even the second edition is from 1999. So I was a bit skeptical about finding relevant content. Oh well, if first two chapters aren't engaging enough I will chuck it aside, I promised myself. But I read through the first two chapters and kept reading.

The first part is dedicated to managing human resources. I laughed out aloud upon reading that majority of us who claim to be in the high-tech business are merely into application of cutting-edge technology invented by others. True! Equally sensible is the chapter that talks about why development work is different than production and hence doesn't warrant use of the same principles like treating workers as interchangeable pieces or frowning if people don't spend every moment in office engaged in official work. I particularly reflected upon one such incident from one of the companies that I worked for. I had put in my papers and was serving my notice period. One evening, some work was left unfinished by one of my team members - a lady - by the end of the day. She told me that she cannot wait after office hours because of some personal errands that she had to run that day. Since that work was critical I asked her if she could come a bit early the next day to finish it and she gladly agreed. The manager who was supposed to take charge of the project after my last day took me aside and said that I shouldn't have let her go. I told him that if I had made her stay back that day it was very likely that she would have given only half her attention to the work. But I was sure that she would do her best work by coming a bit early next morning. I am happy that the material in the book made me realize that I had done the right thing :-) The chapters on Quality, Parkinson's Law and Seven False Hopes of Software Management make for a good read.

The second part - on office environment - didn't appeal that much to me. I agree that noise or interruptions degrade the quality of work that an individual or a team turns in  and that a manager should make sure that the team has the best possible environment in which to work. But I doubt that beyond a certain point, there is much that he or she can do. That said, it will be interesting to learn more about the work of Christopher Alexander.

The first chapter of Part III, The Right People, has the following 2 lines:

People who work for you for whatever period will be more or less the same at the end as they were at the beginning. If they aren't right for the job from the start, they never will be. 
I must say that I respectfully disagree. People can change, provided that they themselves want to change. And a manager should consider it his or her greatest achievement if they can bring about this change, however small its degree.

That said, the authors rightly point out how the definition of 'professionalism' has acquired a narrow look. And anyone who has 'hiring' as part of his professional duties must read the opening of the chapter 'hiring a juggler' as well as sections about asking people getting interviewed for developer position to bring along a sample of their work, aptitude tests and auditions. Over the years, I have watched, with a mix of horror and disbelief, as companies let good people leave and accept it as part of routine turnover, simply assuming that the person is leaving because of a better offer. I wish more people would read the chapter 'Happy To Be Here'.

If you want to read just one chapter from Part IV, Growing Productive Teams, I would recommend the 18th one - about jelled teams. You probably will do a double take as I did when you come across the sentence 'Managers are often not true members of their teams'. And I must warn - you will ignore Chapters 20 (Teamicide) and chapter 22 (Open Kimono) at your own peril. A caveat - read all chapters from this part of the book. It will be an excellent investment of your time.

I found myself nodding, and I suspect that you will too, when I read some of the points made e.g. 'We don't work overtime so much to get the work done on time as to shield ourselves from blame when the work inevitably doesn't get done on tune' and 'Change only has a chance of succeeding if failure - at least a little bit of failure - is also okay'.

But the sentence that will forever remain etched in my memory is the following:

The manager's function is not to make people work, but to make it possible for people to work.

Supernatural - S12, Season Finale

Right. Let me take stock of my emotions as they were at the end of the last episode:

Lucifer kills Rowena: on one side, it's good that the witch is finally dead. On the other, however, the Winchesters have lost a very capable ally who could have served them well while dealing with the Nephilim, should the need arise. That said, the sight of Lucifer clutching at a handful of 'carrot hair' isn't proof enough for me that Rowena is gone. It won't be too surprising if she has just hopped over to his side of the fence.

The Winchesters discover Bobby in the alternate reality: it was good to see Bobby, especially at a time when the Winchesters can count the number of their friends in single low digits, what with the Brits wiping out majority of the American hunters. BTW, just loved the words 'tea-swilling'. :-)

Crowley sacrificing his life to seal Lucifer in the rift: I have to use the Winchesters' favorite expression - 'seriously'? I didn't, for a moment, believe his spiel about getting sick of tending to the Hell and his back-stabbing minions. So I didn't take his death seriously. However, I read on one of the sites that Mark Sheppard has announced that he won't be returning to the show whereas another site claimed that he won't be returning as one of the main characters. Looks like there is hope still. I don't think I am ready to see the last of the King Of Hell yet. And I am sure Sam too will miss being called 'Moose' :-)

Lucifer killing Castiel: really now, how many times is Castiel going to mess up the one job assigned to him? :-( Again, I am taking his death with a pinch of salt. God has brought him back from the dead in the past, right? And He better do so again this time. I am sure handling Lucifer's teenage son isn't going to be the Winchesters' cuppa coffee. What gives me hope is that the cast of main characters for Season 13 mentioned on one site mentions Misha Collins :-)

Mary getting dragged into the alternate reality: No surprises here. I was always afraid that she is going to end up dead by season's end. My worst fears were confirmed after Kelly asked her if she won't die for her sons. But Mary in alternate reality is way better than Mary dead. And Sam seems to have, at least for now, taken this loss in his stride. I just hope that Dean won't fall apart. I am sure that Mary will find her way back to our world in Season 13. What remains to be seen is if she drags John Winchester back with her. It would be nice to see all the Winchesters together. I hope Chuck God (!) is listening.

Lucifer getting sealed in the alternate reality: I can't help but say 'What a relief!' even if that relief turns out to be a short-lived one. I never liked the dude. He is much too slimy for my taste. While it would be too much to hope that he will remain sealed there till the Judgement Day, it's good that the Winchesters won't have to worry about him, at least for now - unless he is able to contact his son from there.

Lucifer's teenage son: whatever Kelly's and Castiel's conviction, I have my doubts about the Nephilim being a benevolent force. Wonder why Castiel never told Kelly about the alternate reality.

I must say that I never fail to be impressed by the fact that the Winchesters never shy away from dealing with whatever life and fate throw their way, without even once calling upon God to help them. But just this once, I hope that God will help their cause because Lucifer is more His mess than theirs.

It sure seems like a long wait till October.

Elementary, S5, Season Finale

The second half of this season had episodes with better storylines. Though it was a foregone conclusion that Shinwell will end up dead sooner or later, I had expected him to last this season to see SBK being destroyed. Clearly, the authors don't believe in happy endings. Anyways, in a way I am glad that the SBK thread won't stretch to cover the next season. It was good to see Watson nabbing the gang's leader without much help from Sherlock.

It came as a shock to discover that Sherlock is suffering from delusions and memory loss. Watson, being a trained doctor, should have spotted the symptoms way before things came to this sorry pass. :-( 

It's a pity because I still have hopes that there will be at least one season dedicated to Holmes and Watson working with the Scotland Yard. There are only so many local crimes that you can weave a story around.